what do you recommend?

 OUR STORYWe’ve been married for a few years now. We’ve done well financially, we have a beautiful family, a beautiful home, cars, etc. but the intangible things seem to be lacking and I can’t quite put my finger on it. I want more touchy feely, sexy, passionate time where we dote on one another, compliment one another and support one another. She cooks, cleans, works, is a joyful/happy person but something about us isn’t connecting in a way that brings me joy and peace. I used to really be a joyful and happy person. I used to always be the energetic one but I’ve lost the umph and our marriage has lost its fire. Happily married women/men, what do you recommend?